Avishek Sen Gupta (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} avishek) wrote,@ 2005-10-26 19:18:00 |
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What to do in anger...
When in anger, like right now probably (which is pretty rare), it is impossible to be objective. However, there's a neat trick I've learned. I read somewhere that when you are angry, your mind is a slave to the person whom you are angry with, since he occupies your whole concentration. That's demeaning. With that knowledge, what you do with it will differ with who you are.
In my case? It has taken time, but I have learned to shrug it off and the person with it. He is not important enough for me to be angry with him, so why bother? Not defeatedly-like, but file away the point of dispute to discuss later probably. For now, as far as you're concerned, he's the insect that alights on your room's tubelight.
Gone... :-)
When in anger, like right now probably (which is pretty rare), it is impossible to be objective. However, there's a neat trick I've learned. I read somewhere that when you are angry, your mind is a slave to the person whom you are angry with, since he occupies your whole concentration. That's demeaning. With that knowledge, what you do with it will differ with who you are.
In my case? It has taken time, but I have learned to shrug it off and the person with it. He is not important enough for me to be angry with him, so why bother? Not defeatedly-like, but file away the point of dispute to discuss later probably. For now, as far as you're concerned, he's the insect that alights on your room's tubelight.
Gone... :-)
